Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Week 51


Today is Monday, September 17, 2012--a day to celebrate the life of John’s Mom, Grace Scott Laing. We thought much of those at home, both family and friends, as they gathered to pay tribute to her. We began our day with prayers that all would be well with those traveling, praying, and speaking at this important event. We look forward to hearing the recording of the funeral knowing it will be a time to lift spirits and comfort hearts.

We began our day, many miles from those gathering in Springville. We are in Deutsch Wagram at the Huszes, where we awoke to a peaceful cool fall morning. We showered and dressed then joined our hosts for an early breakfast of wonderful Bröchen, cheese, meats, fresh fruit and tea before bustling our bags back in the car to take Sis. Husz to one of her many doctor’s appointments for the week.


Austrian farmhouse and shop with fresh berries and fruit Essig (vinegars) 
While she was there President took us to a charming Austrian farmhouse where the proprietors make berry vinegars, and jams, as well as wines, and sell fresh berries. My mom would have adored this place. Everything was charming and open for our view.
Stainless steel kitchen
The “kitchen” where they produce these wonderful items was polished stainless steel and we sampled the vinegars from tiny crystal goblets! The flavors were amazing and I wanted to bring some of each home with us to us for salads. Knowing everything would have to be shipped home, we limited ourselves to one bottle of Himbern Essig but it was difficult not to also buy the apricot version as well. Oh well raspberry is our absolute favorite so we came away very satisfied to have been there and seen the place.
Sampling fruit vinegars--in crystal goblets
We dashed home to unload Marikka’s case of raspberries, through together a sandwich to eat (“So we wouldn’t starve,” Pres. said), then bustled away to pick Sis. Husz back up and leave for Sopron, Hungary. We assured the Huszes we would be happy to take a train but they insisted on being perfect hosts and getting us all the way there, after driving the route we would take to walk to their home from the little Bahnhof nearby.

We arrived in Sopron just 15 minutes before our dental appointments so quickly left our luggage at the hotel and walked with Marikka through the block to a street directly behind our hotel, climbed the stairs to her dentist, Dr. Elod, where we told her goodbye and she left to find President Husz circling the block to take her back home.


John being well cared for Sopron style--the dental captitol of the world
Sopron, Hungary is called the dental capital of the world for good reason. There are some 300+ dental clinics in this little town of 60K people. We figured it would be a fun experience to do as the Austrians (and other Europeans) and have our teeth cleaned and any other work we might need for a price only half what it would cost in Germany or at home. We were grateful for the recommendation as to which dentist to go to. Confident is owned and operated by a husband and wife team. He teaches dentistry at the University of Vienna and both are first rate in their profession as is their assistant.

We “enjoyed” the experience both similar and quite different from a cleaning in SLC. For one thing after my initial example the assistant told me the price and asked if I wished to continue. When she finished with the cleaning she then asked if I wanted “Farber”—whitener. In my very poor Deutsch I asked what it would cost and was assured it was included. After John’s initial exam he was told his teeth were so good his procedure would be only half price—now that I have never had happen at our dentist at home.
Dental "art" in Confident
With shining smiles we bide the friendly folks at “Confident” goodbye and returned to our hotel to rest, read, and relax before taking our daily walk around this interesting old town. Right on the same street we discovered the Church!

Sopron's location for our Church, just down from our dentist
Our hotel is a 4-star hotel that is very old and very baroque. Our room has antique furniture with heavy wooden bedsteads and wardrobes, a tiny two-person table and a big tub in the bathroom, and included breakfasts. The hotel staff is friendly and helpful and we are glad to have these few days to unwind before finishing out our mission.

Pannonia Best Western Hotel--Sopron
We have been aware all day that as we walked around that Mom Laing’s funeral was just beginning and we thought of everyone gathered for the family prayer, funeral, burial, and luncheon and were grateful that all our kids could attend to represent us so well. We are anxious to receive the audio of both Pop and Mom’s events so we can hear the talks and remember together these special people.

The days of the week blur together as we walk, talk, read, laugh and try to strengthen John’s legs the best we know how. We did indulge in his getting a body massage on Monday evening, which seemed to really help, at least for that evening. The weather has been perfect, cool, breezy and sunny though Wednesday turned cooler with a sprinkle of rain.  We enjoyed walking around the inner city with its old churches and museums. We had to do some tricky navigating to find our way in since there was some construction going on around the fire watchtower. Once in, however, we loved seeing the charming old houses with their inner courtyards. The Goat Church was pretty impressive as well—though why it is called that name escapes me!

Beautiful walks in this old old town


Walking Sopron's interesting streets
Goat Church??
In the evening we decided to try out the Erhardt restaurant that was recommended at the top of the list of places to eat in Sopron so we set out in the drizzle with John using his sticks and me holding the umbrella over us both. We found it on Balfi Gasse with no problem and enjoyed the wonderful dinner—which we split, as usual. It is always so nice both in not over eating and in not over extending our budget, eating a very nice dinner for about 7.00 euros or $9.00.


Erhardt Restaurant. . .in the rain

Because I like to take new walking routes, John conceded in our approaching our hotel from a different direction which should have worked great, but we both thought the street leading to the hotel looked to be a dead end so we went beyond to the next one before turning down. By this time it was colder, windy, and raining hard. I could no longer really read the map so we trudged along, occasionally having to keep our umbrella from taking flight in Mary Poppins fashion. Bless him, John kept on trekking, though for the life of me I don’t know what other choice either of us had. We finally made it back to the hotel, but not until
realizing we had way over shot our destination. It was good to be back home where we could dry out and climb into bed with the heating pad on to watch the first half of Pride and Prejudice.

Thursday dawned sunny and bright with a breeze. In order to get a little walk in John agreed to walk up from the hotel to see if the street that had appeared to be a dead end really would have been a clean shot home to the hotel. It was!

John, still worn out from our long walk in the rain the night was uninterested in more hiking about so I went exploring on my own while he went to the sauna and then worked on his journal.  While out and about I found a tiny little thrift shop tucked back in and there bought a linen tunic blouse for 2,000 forints ($9) after bargaining in Chinese fashion to talk the clerk down from 2,500. Then I went looking for a bakery museum noted on my map. I found it but it didn’t open until 2:00. Along my way I also found another recommended restaurant that looked fun to try.

My Sopron thrift shop tucked back in a courtyard
When I returned to the hotel, John was game to go for lunch and then the museum. We enjoyed both. Our elderly guide at the living museum demonstrated all the bakery implements and generally was delightful.
Old Bakery oven
 On our way back we discovered another thrift shop on the main drag that I came back to check out further after getting John back for a rest. There I found a linen skirt for about 5 euros and a blouse from another shop—my souvenirs from Sopran.
Stunning flowers all over town
In the evening we packed up and turned in after a bowl of soup and two expensive cups of hot water. Generally we ordered hot water to fix our own tea and never had we been charged for it but for a little pub we stopped in for supper. Oh well, you can’t always win. I turned in and watched a good portion of the remaining half of Pride and Prejudice.

Friday we got up in good time and finished packing then I went out to buy bread to go with our cheese, milk, and meat for a lunch in Vienna. We went for our usual breakfast at the hotel and then headed out for the train station after I paid our bill.  I walked ahead with the suitcase in order to purchase our train tickets for the 9:13 am train, though I wondered if we’d make it or need to wait for the 10:13. But we did. Just barely.  We climbed aboard and pulled out of the station saying goodbye to Sopron, glad to have come for our little break.  We have found it a wonderful place to be for these few days.
Taking the train to Vienna from Sopron
On the 70-minute train to Vienna we enjoyed the last of Pride and Prejudice and finished it just as we pulled into Meidling, Wien.  We had considered going straight out to Husz’s in Deutsch Wagram but decided instead to stash our luggage at the West Bahnhof and then head into Vienna, free of lugging two computers and our big duffle bag.


After purchasing all-day passes to all public transportation in town, we headed for the Kunsthistorisches Museum to enjoy a little culture. I was so proud of John. He had been trudging along on his sticks well. Before getting to the museum, however, we stopped at a park bench and ate our Hungarian bread sandwiches, fruit, and milk to gain a little energy for the adventures ahead.
Vienna's wonderful museum--one among many
At the museum, we borrowed a wheelchair so I could save John’s walking quite so much and enjoyed seeing the Pieter Breugal room to see Hunters in the Snow and other works. I climbed up to see the Gustav Klimt murals, but left John below, since we didn’t want to abandon the wheelchair, nor having him climb up the stairs. I could see from above he also enjoyed a little nap while I was gone.
Hunters in the Snow--Beugal
I liked the Egyptian rooms with the interesting décor as well as the many ancient pieces on display and the Gustav Klimt murals.
Eygpt's treasures on display
Interesting Klimt paintings tucked around the columns
Finally we decided we’d had enough and returned the Rollstuhl and left for the ring-road Straßenbahn to get an overview of this wonderful old city.

Vienna's wonderful public transport was easy to use
Our next stop was a walk into the inner streets to see Demels where we watched pastries being made (though we didn’t indulge), and walked Kohlmarkt which boasted of Chanel and Gucci among other posh shops—me contentedly wearing my Chinese knock-off Gucci jacket and Channel watch.  Neither of us could care less for the expensive real ones.

Demel's--pastry in the making

Posh shops on Kohlmarkt 
Having for now seen enough of city bustle, we returned to the U-bahn and headed for Heiligengeiststadt where we then caught a 38A bus for Kahlenberg and the access to the Weinerwald—John’s desired destination. It was a fun trip and we walked up along the leaf-strewn paths glad to have had the chance to come.

John's walk in the Wienerwald--finally!

On the way back we stopped at Grinzing and had dinner outside at a charming restaurant called Rudolfs before heading back to the West Bahnhof to reclaim our gear and catch trains out to Deutsch Wagrum—and home for now.

We arrived at about 8:30 pm having walked—not counting the museum where John rode—seven miles! That was a lot for both of us. Thank goodness for our both having been walking daily!

It was nice to climb up to our room, unload our stuff and say hello to Sis. Husz and to her daughter, Sandra, who had arrived Tuesday from Canada.  We were so sorry to hear that Sis. Husz is going to need more surgery—this time to remove a broken Heparin Lock in her chest. It is worrisome for her both because it is no fun to have added health issues after being through so much but also because it will likely delay her return to the temple. I emailed Kathy immediately and asked that she put her name on the Salt Lake Temple prayer roll since our temple isn’t open.

Our room at the Husz's
Saturday I worked with Sis. Husz to make her yummy vegetable flavoring and enjoyed the process. I will get the recipe from her in Freiberg.

Yummy pot of raw veggies, waiting 
The finished product. It is yummy.

Creating veggie flavoring mix--the only one Sis. Husz can use.
It is worth knowing how to make it. Her son Andrew and his little daughter Amanda was here too. It was fun to work together on it in her kitchen.

After our project we were invited to celebrate President’s birthday at a lunch with nearly their entire family. It was fun to meet the other boys and their grandchildren. We were particularly taken with Jacob who reminded me of what John must have been like as a child. He talked non stop but was so cute (and his Deutsch, much to John’s chagrin, was perfect!). Home again, we enjoyed a good nap before heading off for the evening session of stake conference. We were pleased to see Brother Schauperl and his wife, and a couple of others who had visited our temple and the meeting, with its excellent translators (the best of them the Husz’s son, Michael, was very good) was totally focused on the temple.

Sunday we had a quick breakfast and then drove for an hour to attend stake conference at a sport’s arena in Oberlaa-Therme. After the Huszes visited with friends we returned for Sunday dinner, a nap, and finally getting my blog for the week completed. It has been a wonderful, and very full one!

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Week 50

I am late getting my an entry posted since we spent most of Sunday—after the Berlin Stake conference—driving for some six-plus hours with the Huszes to Vienna.

Beautiful Grace Scott who captured Bill Laing's heart
Monday, last week, John and I received an early morning phone call from his brothers, together on a conference call, letting him know that his mom had passed away at 4:22 pm, Sunday evening, on September 9—just four days after her 89th birthday and exactly one-month from the day Pop left us on August 9.  We were amazed at the speed with which Mom declined.

The process that took Pop weeks to go through (not wanting to leave Mom behind, I’m sure), took mom just hours, anxious to rejoin him. What a wonderful blessing to have it so. It is difficult to lose both parents so quickly but we can’t but be happy for their being together again. We are so grateful for the knowledge we have of the Plan of Happiness, of Salvation, and of Redemption. What a blessing the gospel is in our lives. John has been flooded of memories of his mom from when he was a little boy and together we worked to capture these to send to his siblings as his contribution to their funeral preparations.


We called back in on the conference call with the siblings to decide the date for the funeral, to approve the program and obituary that Crystal put together from drafts John had sent earlier. They looked great. Crystal does such a super job. It was wonderful to talk with everyone. It has been a sweet experience to have the chance to work together in such harmony, everyone willing to give and take as needed to bring things together beautifully. The viewing was to be Sunday night and the funeral Monday, September 17. We were so grateful our three could attend. Patrick and Tessha would flew down to attend and to enjoy a get away together, since they wouldn't have the kids for the weekend. We will hear a report on these special events soon, I’m sure.

Our early walk to welcome the sunrise after hearing about Mom.
When we got off the phone it was just before 6:30 am and we decided to go out walking to see the sunrise and to talk. It was so lovely in the cool of the morning. Later we finished boxing up the first of three boxes we will ship home, and with the help of the Meyerses and their car, we hauled this one down to the post office. It was nice to get one under way. I hope they all make it home safely! In the process of getting it packaged and weighed—all 20 kilos of it—I managed to strain my back and put it in spasms and was worried that I was going to be in real trouble, but John worked my back, knees, and legs, helping me enormously. How grateful we are for the things Sis. Cyr taught us that allow us to help keep each other going!

It is hard to say goodbye to the Metzners
We said our last farewells to the Metzners Monday evening; they left Tuesday morning as we began a wonderful week at the temple with another group of Hungarians here with their children for their week-long visit--the older ones who participated in baptisms and the little guys who were cared for in the Herberge by parents and friends trading off. One young man, here with his wife and four children—the eldest 5 years old—commented to John that this was his children’s seventh temple trip—adding, they come bringing them as often as they can because they want them to learn to love the temple! I don’t doubt that they will. These families who spend their vacations doing temple work have a special spirit about them.

On Wednesday John felt really lousy—as if he had been run over by several trucks. He was really wobbly and his energy level was just not there. The next day we realized in the rush to get to the temple the day before neither of us had had our morning pills. No wonder John was flattened! At least now we realize they do help him keep going.

Thursday, while John was resting, I went to Netto to see if they had held some empty boxes for us—and was able to come home with three big Brötchen boxes that should finish off giving us space for everything we will need to still ship home so we don’t need to wield a lot on our journey. We also packed knowing we were leaving Saturday after the second session and would have no time to do so Friday after our late shift.

On Saturday we had serveral live sealings to arrange for and then left with the Huszes just after the second session finished, quickly changed, loaded our bag into their car, and were under way for Berlin—a place we had thought we would not see before leaving Germany. To try to get there and back on the train on a weekend would have been beyond John’s energy levels, though we had had wonderful invitations from different Saints living there to come see them and let them show us around.

The Berlin bear welcomes us en route to our bus
Huszes were to speak at the Saturday evening session for the stake conference and we thought we should go with them but president said “It’s your only chance to see Berlin.” So I made a deal with him and Sis Husz that we would go see the city Saturday night if they would share their talks with us en route to Wien.

Our Hop-on and Hop-off Bus--we stayed on!

City tour--our way.
They agreed so when we got to our hotel, they left for the stake center and we walked (John brought his sticks with!) down a ways from our hotel to catch a city bus tour—our usual mode of getting an overview of a city. In this case, with our short time frame, it was our only chance to see anything of this big city, which John had never visited and I hadn’t seen since I was 16 when I met my brother after his mission and when Berlin was still a divided city—with a wall separating West and East Berlin. How different things are now!

Our impression of Berlin was that it was much like China in that it is largely under construction. The tour director on the bus said that there were over 100,000 sites under renovation. We could believe it. Cranes were everywhere. The Berliners may have to share with the Chinese in having the "crane" declared their national bird too!

Construction cranes everywhere!

We still enjoyed seeing sites on both east and west sides of the city.

As we were leaving the city the next day after stake conference, Sis Husz told us, when we drove by the Victory Tower we had seen the night before, that her son had served his mission in Berlin and the missionaries always joked that the beautiful angel on top was Angel Moroni’s girlfriend.
Victory Tower--Moroni's girlfriend!





We were especially drawn to the Brandenburger Tor that used to present such a threat to anyone wanting to enter or leave the East Zone. The last time I was here, so long ago, the Berlin Wall still flanked the gate on both sides. It was wonderful to see the city now joined in one and to think of all the fulfillment of prophecy that has come regarding blessings to the East German Saints—not the least of which is the wonderful temple where we serve. Whenever I think of its being constructed—behind the Iron Curtain—and the blessings poured out upon the Saints who remained so faithful in such dire circumstances, I am humbled to have come to know them and work among them for this brief year of our mission.
Brandenburger Tor

We enjoyed seeing these neat little pedicycles all over Berlin--bike-rickshaws. John wouldn't be able to fall out of one of these.

Classy transportation and no gas!

After our tour we stopped for dinner at an Argentine steak house not far from our hotel and, typically for us, ordered a salad and side dishes to share. It was very yummy and we went back to the hotel having gotten in a very good walk, seen a good overview of Berlin, and had our tummies comfortably filled.

Sunday morning we enjoyed a very nice breakfast at the hotel before loading our stuff back in the car and heading to stake conference. The building is in a lovely area tucked in among the embassies and near the Tiergarten. We enjoyed greeting and hugging many of the Berliner ordinance workers and patrons we have grown to love at the temple.

Primary choir practice before stake conference
It was an excellent conference, focused on welfare issues—mostly on what we individually can do to reach out to those around us to lift hearts in multiple ways. We enjoyed the Primary chorus that began the meeting and John loved listening to the German, very different from the Sachsen we struggle with in Freiberg. This was really hoch Deutsch!

A welcome stop outside Prague
Following the meetings we climbed in the president's Opel and headed back onto the Autobahn for Dresden, then Prague, and finally Vienna. We stopped at McDonalds just past Prague, the Huszes normal stopover en route, to get a salad before heading out for the last 300 Kilometers. As we drove, we enjoyed hearing about the Huszes' talks the night before and then John whispered to me that it would be a good time to give Sis. Husz the gift we had ordered for her and the things we had for President’s birthday—which will be Tuesday, while we are in Sopron.



The Huszes—though especially Marikka—love Minerva Teichert's paintings, and years ago she had owned a biography of the artist, but had loaned it to someone and never got it back. Whenever she went to Utah she had unsuccessfully tried to find another copy. I was able to find one online, as well as another of hers showing her Book of Mormon murals, thanks to my sister Kathy’s packaging them up and sending them off to us after they arrived in Utah. We were so pleased that they got to us before we left on our trip. We also had heavy bookends for President—he loves books. We were thrilled that they were so pleased with the gifts.
We finally got to Deutsch Wagram--the Vienna suburb where Huszes' home is--about 8:00 pm and stopped for a simple meal at a small restaurant still open, before we pulled up to the Husz’s little house.

Schwester Husz (with Minerva in hand) outside her home.
Oh, were we glad to get out of the car, haul our stuff into the house, and go to bed! It was a long, long day and the end of a happy and bitter-sweet week.

Together again!
Sunday night was John’s mom’s viewing and we thought much of those who would be gathering together for it, wishing it were possible to be there too but so happy that the folks are together again.

Sunday, September 9, 2012

Week 49


Monday, together with three other missionary couples, we took a bus outing to Seiffen. We have long wanted to go back, after our aborted anniversary trip last June when we came home with the flu.

Awaiting the bus for Seiffen
We had a grand time down on the bus, laughing and sharing stories along the way as we rode through wonderful scenery of green fields, forests, and tiny German villages along our way.

A fun outing together
Seiffen is a wonderful old health town (Kurort) tucked right above the Czech border in the Erzgebirge Mountains. It is famous for its wonderful hand carved wood works and for its marvelous old hexagonal church.
The beautiful old Seiffen Kirche
We have come to know that church from many works of art we have seen but to actually see it in person was a real thrill for us. I love the charming cemetery to the side of the church, so typical of Europe with its garden plots so beautifully tended by loved ones.
Seiffen cemetery--I love this ongoing attention to someone who has gone before.

We returned home in good time to finish up our preparations for beginning our temple week on Tuesday—an Allegemeine Woche (a week in the temple not designated for any particular group, country, or mission). By Thursday, however, we received a good-sized group of Czechs who came and stayed through Saturday, attending every session offered.

Tuesday first thing we also met the one to become the new first counselor and his wife, Elder and Sister Koch, here from Switzerland, who came for their week of observation and training. They, as the Suckows, will arrive to begin their missions, on September 25. We liked them both very much, though their English—particularly hers—is pretty limited. She is anxious to learn more and we will work together closely communicating the best we can. John and I are grateful for the new folks coming to replace those leaving.

It always strikes me with wonder at the smoothness of transition in Church responsibilities as one is released and leaves and another comes to fill their shoes.

Wednesday marked the 89th birthday of John's mom, Grace Scott Laing. We called and spoke with her briefly to let her know that we love her and were thinking of her. John had written a wonderful birthday letter to her which Becca had read her. She has not been eating or drinking for a few days and we don't know how long she will be here. No doubt Pop is anxious for her to join him.

Mom Laing, now 89, with Paul's family

Addendum: We received a phone call early Monday morning letting us know that Mom Laing passed away at 4:22 pm--one month to the day after her beloved husband. They are without doubt celebrating being together again after this brief separation, now to begin their eternal lives together. Rebecca reported that Mom went through these final stages of mortality step by step in hours that Pop took weeks to go through. Certainly his delaying was a desire not to leave her and her speed was a desire to rejoin him! We had phoned to have our love conveyed to her just two hours before she slipped into eternity. We are so grateful for our knowledge of the Plan of Salvation that allows us to rejoice at this time rather than to sorrow.

This has indeed been a week of endings with Pres. and Sis Metzner (1st counselor and assistant) finishing their service on Saturday and the Harpers (2nd counselor and assistant) following suit next Saturday. How we will miss the Metzners. Gisela is sunshine and love personified and Rolf is constant in service and friendship. We are glad to keep the Harpers for one more week.

Rolf and Gisela Metzner, returning to Darmstadt
 Thursday night we celebrated and thanked both couples at a combined Abschied dinner with all the missionaries. Jim Chidester, at the request of the president, had made use of old slate shingles from off the temple (the East Germans never get rid of anything!) to make etched plaques showing the temple and pictures of their presidency. It was a lovely event.

Bruce and Jean Harper, returning to Cottonwood Heights, Utah
Friday, Rolf Metzner asked John if he and I would come with him before the evening session so he could show us something he had discovered on one of his many bike rides—but he would take us in the car, for John’s sake. We willingly went with him and he drove us in his BMW over bumpy pastures roads and old DDR forest lanes until we came across a horse ranch he had discovered. We visited those mounts in their stalls, wishing we had brought an apple or two along with us.
A visit to the horse stables.
On our way back into Freiberg we were stopped by a police blockade a couple of blocks from the Temple. The forceful woman refused to allow Rolf to drive further down Hainichener Strasse, demanding he turn around and go park in designated parking in Kleinwaltersdorf, the next town down the road we had just traveled—he didn’t have the necessary residence tag to permit him to drive into Freiberg Saxon Days, being held Friday through Sunday.

John and I got out and hiked back to the temple, while Rolf obediently turned his beamer around. We saw him later after we all got back and learned he had obtained the tag and collected his vehicle. That was our reminder that Saxon Days were upon us in Freiberg!
John enjoying Saxon Days downtown Freiberg
Saxon Days is like a huge state fair at home in Utah, but located throughout an entire city. This year it was being held here. Saturday after the temple John and I gathered up his sticks and headed down Hainichener Strasse for town to get a flavor of the three-day event.
Heading into the throng!
All the city streets were blocked off but for police and emergency vehicles and thousands of pedestrians crowded the streets.

We enjoyed the festive feel in the air, ate an Italiansich Eis and a grilled wurst, saw displays of goods (and goodies) for sale, before dragging ourselves home ending a 4.37 mile walk. I’m sure that John had little hope of ever making it back but we did—both of us relieved to finally get home.
Loop lace making

Polish pottery display
I had to laugh at the displays of Texas cowboys and American Indians we stumbled across along our way. What a strange thing to find in Freiberg, Germany for Saxon days! I did enjoy the melodic sound of the haunting Indian flutes played.
Indian flutes mixed with Umpah bands. A world of contrasts.
Our week ahead will be the last before our temple shuts down for two-weeks’ maintenance and we have Hungarian here again. We look forward to seeing these wonderful friends—likely our last chance before it is time for us to leave ourselves.

Sunday, September 2, 2012

Week 48


Our one week of warm summer days has ended and we have returned to cool weather, now with an escalating touch of fall in the air. In September we are coming up on our one-year anniversary of our mission. Can it really have gone by so fast?

We continue to try to strengthen John by walking and it is making a positive difference, though he isn’t always enthused about getting out and moving. Some days we are so tired, neither of us feels like doing so, but we are determined not to break our daily pattern, even if the walk is short. 


Today, after our Sunday meetings we changed clothes and then walked to the forest nearby to enjoy the peace there and to take some photos along the way of some of our favorite neighborhoods with their boxes of flowers spilling over in colorful bloom.  


Though his mobility (when not using his Nordic sticks) continues to be pretty wobbly, strengthening John's leg muscles seems to be a wise thing to do. Besides doing it is good for the soul!

Bernd Suckow
Tuesday Bernd and Barbara Suckow arrived to spend a week in the temple being oriented to their new assignments—he as 2nd counselor and she as 2nd assistant to the matron—starting immediately after our shutdown the end of September. They are Germans though they lived for 14 years in California, having been transferred there by Volkwagen, for whom he worked for 35 years.

Change is always a little difficult and when it now comes to saying goodbye to the Metzners and the Harpers, who finish their assignments in the presidency in the next two weeks, and return to Darmstadt (for the Metzners) and Salt Lake (for the Harpers); we will feel their loss. That said, we will welcome the Suckows with open arms. John has worked with him all week training him on everything and he is a quick study. She too learns quickly and both will fit in well. We look forward to working with them for the three weeks we have remaining after the temple reopens. This next week the other counselor will come with his wife to have a similar overview and training.
Pötzschers, heading home to Berlin
Thursday evening we enjoyed a wonderful potluck as a sendoff for the Pötzschers, who left Saturday after their two months with us, and for Rebecca Tollefson, who is being transferred to the Family and Church History Mission in Salt Lake City, next Thursday morning. We were excited to learn that Rebecca will be attending our former branch there where we served for five years and where my sister and her husband now lead. We wish each of them well.

Rebecca Tollefson, headed to Utah
As for us, we have been dragging out suitcases and empty boxes to try to figure what we need to ship home, give away, or take with us. We like to plan ahead so that we feel no pressure as the time draws closer.

We spoke by phone with our former counselors in our Xi’an branch, now home from their second year in China, to learn that they returned three weeks ago and they say it now feels as though they had never left home. I suppose that is as it will be with us too but for now we are savoring each day and trying to serve faithfully and well with what energy we can muster.

Saturday we phoned to talk with John’s Mom to see how she is faring without his Dad. She was very weak and is unable to get out of bed any longer, nor is she eating or drinking much. In lucid moments, however, she knows “Bill” is gone—though she often sees him close by her now, as she does her sister Bea and her mother. It is not surprising to have the veil so thin for her, I think. We will see how long it is before she follows her sweetheart of so many years into the Spirit world. Meanwhile her only daughter, Rebecca, and her family care for her lovingly and are blessed with a wonderful outpouring of the Spirit in their home because of their devoted service to her. 
After nearly 69 years of being together. 
In times such as these the reality of the Plan of Happiness is clear before us and we are grateful for our knowledge of it.

Today in our Sunday School class we studied Alma’s wonderful sermon to his son Corianton, who had not behaved as he should while serving his mission. Alma, Chapters 40-42 provides a wonderful instruction manual for explaining the plan of salvation—of redemption, of mercy, of happiness. We had a marvelous discussion about the importance of the role of the Atonement in our lives—without which, with all the best intentions of our hearts, we could never return home to our Father in Heaven. One of the brothers made the comment that it is one thing to read of these things, but it is quite another to apply them.  His comment led me to see in a new light a poignant illustration of exactly that:

A sweet Rumanian sister in our ward and her much-older husband have longed for a child of their own. Needless to say, they were elated about expecting a baby. Then she had a miscarriage and since then she has not been at church. Because she likes to practice her limited English she often attends our English Sunday School classes. Today although I did notice that she had come in and taken a seat and felt pleased to see her, I got caught up in getting the class started, calling on one among us to give the invocation, and then—with an incredible lack of sensitivity—asked the lesson leader to share their wonderful news of the night before. She did so with tears of joy: they had just learned that their daughter-in-law is expecting twins!

Neither I, nor anyone else there, had any intention in the world of hurting Sis Hübner, but neither had I considered how such joyous news would make her feel. In my focus on the Gearys’ happiness, I didn’t even notice when she slipped quietly out of the room.  When it did dawn on me, I shared with the class what had just taken place, and how grateful I was for the Atonement that makes up for these unintentional blunders as well as the weighty matters of our sins. How blessed we are for our knowledge of the Plan of Salvation and of the role of the Savior of the World in providing a way for us to go home, without which we would all be lost.

After class, though we didn’t find Sis Hübner we did speak with her husband and asked his forgiveness for our lack of sensitivity and that he give our love to his grieving wife. For each of us we had had a vivid lesson in likening these scriptures concerning the necessity of the Atonement in our lives.

We are grateful for the blessings of the gospel and pray that your week ahead will be filled with joy as you walk your particular path towards "home."